S. Michael Wilcox recalled a childhood pastime of looking for missing objects in his home. He and his siblings would often struggle to find what was missing, yet his mother could always locate it. She would counsel, “Move something!”
The same goes for our lives. When something is missing in our lives, we often need to move something so we can find it. Instead of just looking on the surface, we might have to rustle some feathers and get to the next levels.
The something you move might even be yourself! If you want to find yourself, move yourself!
P.S. You’re not lacking the ability, you’re blocking it.